One action, in one sentence, with a when and a where. Not a booklet, not ten tips, not “get started.”
Open your own box as a customer would. Picture the usual pile: a welcome letter, a care guide, a QR code to a video, a discount and a request to follow on social media. What it often lacks is the answer to the only question that matters on day one: what do I do first?
Chip and Dan Heath put it as “script the critical moves”: people facing change get stuck on ambiguity, and what looks like resistance is often lack of clarity about what exactly to do Published. Their book explains this partly with ego depletion, the idea that self-control runs out like fuel. I don’t use that explanation here, because two large multi-lab replications, with 2,141 and then 3,531 participants, found little or no effect Published. The advice survives without it: a clear first step is easier to take than a vague one.
The classic evidence is older. In a 1965 study, Howard Leventhal and colleagues gave college students frightening or mild leaflets about tetanus. Fear changed attitudes but did little for behavior. What raised the number who actually went for a shot was specific instructions: a campus map with the health center marked and the hours it was open Published. The map turned an intention into a route.
Tell them the first move, not everything they could do.
A good first move passes five tests:
Picture a magnesium supplement. The old insert says “Welcome to better sleep” and lists six benefits, the dosage, the ingredients and a discount. The scripted version, printed inside the lid where it’s seen first, says: “Tonight, 30 minutes before bed: two capsules with a glass of water. Leave the jar on your nightstand.” Everything else can go on the back or into the weeks that follow. The same sentence goes into the delivery-day email and text, so it meets them twice on the day that matters.
For a dog food, the first move isn’t “switch your dog’s food.” It’s “Tonight, mix one scoop into the usual bowl. Keep the scoop in the bag.” The switch schedule arrives later (chapter 9).
This is one chapter of Used, Not Bought, which is free and readable in full on a single page with no form in front of it.